Decode myths

D oesn't it all start with Vibes? And somehow, it leads from disliking to hate ?  Let's start this with a question : "Do you hate someone because of What they do? Or because of who they are?". It's really important, to know if you've been thinking in the right direction or not.  If your answer is latter, then that's pretty messed up.  HATE , is an emotion of aversion  towards other person or group, that is also paired up with enmity and malice, all because of our brain and hormones. When you meet a   friend of your bestfriend, a person with a great personality, but she's closer to your bestfriend than you are! Isn't that a reason enough for you start envying that person? So, now whenever you meet your bestfriend, you try to avoid talking about that girl. Clearly, it's not hate, but enviousy - A perplexing emotion. Because not only enviousy is sometimes a good sign, but when left unadressed, they take route to hate. Envious people ...

Aren't we all judgemental, if not all then some, toward  Introverts ? Before you dig into the article, you must know what the term means. Often we meet people, who are more timid and reticent than others. Introverts are considered to be thoughful about people, situations, and life. They make final decision after they have calculated every possible outcome. That might be an exaggeration! But, the truth is if you're an Introvert and a student, your classmates may judge you for being cocky and self-centered. Trust me! it has happened with me. I was quite a centre of attention, and I'm not bragging. It often happened while the class were laughing about someone saying something stupid, i was reading a book or well, writing a song (I'm a singer). They'd all end up looking at me, and the most accurate word i can use for the expression they'd send me off is '' She's got an attitude " .  Now, from a psychologist point - of - view, "Attit...